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Posted: Sep 19 2008, 02:21 PM
Member No.: 11
Joined: 19-September 08
Why is it that some parents in my case its my mother doesn't realise that her constantly beleiveing that im gonna wake up straight underminds my realtionship.
A relationship i might add that iv'e been in for 2 and a half years already and we have a little girl together and yet my mum refuses to accept that even if i were to sepearate from my parnter that i would still feel that it is important for our daughter Caiden too see both of her mothers as that is all she has ever known.
Why is it that if my othr half was a man she would proberly agree that Caiden needs to be supported by both parents even if the child wasn't biologically his!
So isn't this just a blatant double standard! or am i just being insensitive.
She would rather my daughter have a relationship with her dad, than my partner but doesn't she realise that she can have both that caiden doesn;t have to choose weather she has 1 mum 1 dad or 2 mums and 1 dad she has her birth mother and father and then an additional step mother what is not to understand about that.
I think im just confused isn't the most important thing that Caiden has a loving set of parents and a stable home life even if it s not the troditional frame.