Hating a Parent, Is it horrible of me?

[Lutearina]

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No....

Freaking....

WAY.

Your...Dad didn't baptize you?! O_O

Oh...Owch. Owch. OWCH. *Is in pain herself now xD*

That's just HORRIBLE. I cannot imagine not having a wonderful father, and it sounds terrible. I *almost* had a stepfather, and I really didn't like him that much. Thank heavens it didn't work out...Luckily. See, he wasn't LDS until my mom sorta got him to join the church or she wouldn't marry him, and stuff happened, so....Luckily I escaped that horror. He really wasn't as great as my mom thought, and I never liked him anyway.

You are most certianly not being whiny, OR a brat. That totally SUCKS.
I really wish I could give you a hug. But since I..

1) Do not live near you xD
2) Do not have your phone number xDD
3) Considering it's almost eleven PM, not good time to call even if I DID have your number xD

So, for now, all I can give is a virtual hug, and there's always PM if you wanna talk some more, privately.

[Dirty Harry]

Oh, poor Alantie! I haven't done that for so long! Makes me feel better! Hope it make you feel better.

I agree with Lute; you aren't being whiny: it isn't whiny to say that you are being mistreated, or being depreciated. So no, I think that I can sympathise with you a lot.

However...if he does have a reason, maybe you should ask him. I think it would help your mentality if you just went straight out and asked him, and put him in the limelight, like 'Why did you do this for my other siblings, and not me? You know this, you know this, so why did you do that?" Or something like that. And yo've got to think of any kind of response that he can think of, because the aim is to force a reason, not an excuse. If he says he doesn't know, more of a reason to come back to us, and let us theorise.

and another glomp, to make you feel better!

[Alantie]

Omg, you guys are so sweet. *glomps you both*

Yes way, Lutey. He didn't baptise me, my grandpa did instead. Yes, it is very hard to deal with, and I have wanted to say something to him for ever so long about it. I haven't though because he never tries to have a conversation with me, and he always dismisses my feelings as being unimportant. You should be glad, Lute to have such an awesome father who loves you!

But I will try to talk to him DH, and let you know how it goes! Then you can anylize him/tear him to shreds/ whatever makes you happy!

[Dirty Harry]

My psychology aspirations shall be realised.

Yeah, I think talking to him will help you, like settle your peace of mind. Hee...

[HyruleMaster]

Gah, I've been thinking about what to say for this topic for so long. (Yes, I'm a dork... ^^; ) But it was concerning me.

Well, I'm glad that you plan on talking to him. (Though it has been a long time... so maybe you've already had) That's the best thing to do. But show him love, too. I know it may be hard, but still try your best. (Since you're LDS, I can say this): Pray for him too, remember in times like these, there's always someone there for you and keeping his eye out for every little hair on your head. ^_~ Now that's the best guidance you can get... And have faith, too.

I don't really know the whole situation (partially because you probably live miles and miles away from me), so that's the best suggestion I can give. ^^;

(Yes, I'm LDS, too, if you didn't notice. )