I need help

Ok this is my problem..I posted about being able to feel evil and had experiences growing up...Now this is hard for me to post because sometimes I feel that maybe I am going crazy but my husband and I have been married twenty two years.Almost a year ago I found out he was having an affair and now he lives with her...we are still married..This came as a shock to me his kids and his family..His father was a pastor and shortly before his death he told my husband not to let the devil in his marriage.Now I know many people cheat for many different reasons but I honestly feel there is something more to this..My husbands personality completely changed..My kids tell me that they see their real dad when she is not around.I know that any woman would say this about the other woman but I swear there are times she has looked at me with pure evil in her eyes.Please be kind in your responces I know it sounds crazy but could it be true could my husband brought the devil in our marriage so to speak..thanks for your time

I don't think so. I'm not proud to admit this, but I've cheated before when I was younger and stupider. I do remember the pure hatred look very well. My ex's always had that look. Who knows why he did it, but she ain't the devil. May seem it, but she ain't.

Though I do joke my ex wears her hair in a bun to hide the horns, and I was tired of having to get everything redone cause of the constant burn marks. (she was a smoker and had the bad habit of falling asleep while smoking, so that was a truth.)

Sometimes people are capable of great evil. Look at that staff sergant who killed 16 in afghanistan. His neighbor was shocked, granted don't think your husband would go on a killing spree...but maybe this change is really who he is when the closet and skeletons are opened. Some people are vile once the closet is opened.

It was just such a change in his personality. He was so involved in the church, song director,worked with the kids on wed nights...everyone that has known him his whole life says the same thing,they never for a million years would have believed he would to this...so many people have lost respect for him and that breaks my heart...I know the man he is and this is not him.We even thought maybe drugs were involved...she works in a hospital..He will not even give his pastor the time of day now...Its just so sad..I will always Love the man I met 24 years ago.I do believe that Satan loves to break up familes because the damage is great and mocks God.

I am so sorry for this change in your husband, and whatever influence may have contributed to it.

seems like something the two of you should talk about. It is rare for someone to become possessed with no build up of supernatural phenomena.

Well to be honest there could have been.We moved into a hundred year old house.I only experienced one thing giggling which I thought was my youngest but I checked and he was asleep in his room but my daughter and my husband saw many things..My daughter saw a man in the hall then a woman in her room and my husband would see movement out of the corner of his eye and saw a young boy many times.He never believed in ghost before even though he also experienced things at his work place.Now the reason I think something was wrong with the house was because of my dog.I got him about a year before the affair.He was at a vets office for about five months and they were going to put him down I took him home and shortly after that he started having seizures I took him back to the vet and they ran many test and then put him on medicine,the vet told me the whole time they had him he never had seizures.Well about a year after my marriage fell apart and me and my kids were staying somewhere else but I had to leave my dog in the house till I could take him with me.I felt so bad leaving him there and would go several times a day.Well one night a man who worked at a store by my house called and said my dog was at the front of the store I went and picked him up and went to the house and saw where he jumped out a glass window.I took him with me to my new place and he has not had a seizure since.

Well Seizures occure in dogs for many reasons. One thing is environmental toxins. Things that to animals are toxic are sometimes not so toxic in dogs.

Metaldehyde-rat poison, snail and slug baits.
Organochlorines- flea and parasite control
Pyrethin-skin parasites
Bronethalin-all sorts of poisons.
Lead-paints and old INSECTICIDES
Sodium flouroacetate-rat poisons
Strychine-Rodent poisons (my house was built 200 years ago. It's not uncommon for mice, and other rodents to get in the house, strychine was called red lead, and there is parts of my house that have very high levels of strychine that once had bottles that leaked all over the floor, the wood is still saturated and I still need to have that section of the floor removed. Thankfully it's in the upstairs and the room is locked.)
Thallium-poisons
Zinc Phosphate-rat poisons
Methylxanthines (caffeine)-chocolate

These all can cause seizures in dogs. There's other things too, something called garbage poisoning. Tick bites, rock mountain spotted fever which people can get too, lyme disease, and that's not all. There is many many many reasons a dog can have seizures.

If the dog jumped through a window then I'm thinking garbage poisoning is a very real possibility. In people and dogs staphylococcal and or botulism toxins may cause central nervous system stimulation resulting in seizures.

Another thought is Toxoplamosis. It is caused by a pathogen in raw meat, uncooked veggies, eating dirt and cat feces. It is very similar to giardia. It can be dormant in the animal and can flare up at any time. It needs drugs to treat it or it will end up getting worse, leading to coma and dead eventually.