silas, james, rhys & marionWHEN
so last night my sister came to me and said my dad's willing to help pitch in money for us to move out. we've been trying for the last year, but after my graduation and difficulty finding jobs, along with some unforseen costs that really put me in the hole, we've been having to move our date further and further away while i struggle to make money. our dad's help means we're getting the push we need, however, it also means i have to start contributing to real bills very, very soon.
simply put, rping is a luxury for people who have a lot of time. i feel that up until now, my sister's been very patient waiting for me to get my life together. the least i owe her is to come through when her faith is really, really waning. i spent a lot of time here trying to escape real life obligations, but now that they're staring me in the face and someone i really care about's RL happiness depends on my devotion to the job i DO have, i need to re-evaluate a lot.
i am not necessarily leaving, but i am taking a break to reassess. i am going to archive most of my threads (though i think i'll leave jamy out, because james is the only character i'm sure i'm keeping, atm). to those threading with the other three, i truly, truly apologize for any let downs i'm causing. tanya, especially, i know you're making rhys' sister. you'll be getting a PM/IM where we can discuss it further. again, until last night, none of it really clicked. this is an absence i didn't realize was a necessity until a few hours ago.
as you can imagine, this means my time for staff will as well be severely limited. i am sorry for such a short return back (my intent was to fill the void when shan left, since she was such a big contributor to getting things done behind the scenes), but it has become clear that i need to shuffle my priorities. i think i will be able to keep more characters if i shuffle my obligations on DM around.
in the meantime, thank you guys for your support and love <3
this is an update to my absence! i happen to have squared away the whole moving deal (a bit less quickly than i'd originally hoped but hey! 8 weeks to make a big life change ain't that bad!) and my sister and i are getting the keys to our new place (expect pics <3) on tuesday the 26th! YAY MOVING <3 of course, that means i'll be out of the picture just a bit longer while we get settled, and, perhaps more importantly, buy ourselves an internet connection xD we'll be without for a few days while the communications dudes come to hook all our stuff up, so hopefully we won't be without past this next sunday AND i do get DM on my iphone so i'll try and at least be a mini-presence through that!
after the move i expect to make a full return =D so i'll keep ya'll lovelies posted!!!