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I'm sending my lovely pigmy owl Owl with this letter to your common room becuase I need to talk with you Charlie.
It's guys. I cannot believe that us, of all people, are having guy troubles. I mean, since when do we have them?? Ugh. My head hurts. Please write back!! <3
Wait a minute, you're having guy troubles? I can't believe it! I never thought this day would come to be honest. Seriously, who is next to be struck by cupid's arrow? Me? Haha yeah right.
I want to hear all about it, Charlie! Do you want to meet somewhere to talk? Or just write me? I think I'm a little behind on your situation, who is the guy?
I know, I know. I never thought I'd have guy troubles either. I have been struck hard. And you should too so we can share the feelings =P
Well, I'll write.
You know how I've been friends with Connor Bell for like, ever? Well I really like. More than a friend. Ah! It's so confusing and frustrating! I have no clue what to do hon. Should I tell him?
And then Parker's acting weird. Any time I bring up Connor, he gets all angry. Do you know why, cause I sure don't. Sorry to vent your ear off.
Well, I swear none of the guys see me as a potential girlfriend. I don't think that I will have a problem anytime soon. I've given up on showing interest in any of them. However, I look forward to the day, when I'll be coming to you for advice on the matter.
Connor Bell? Oh wow, I had no idea you liked him. Well isn't he involved with another girl? I would tell him I guess The worst he can say is that he doesn't feel the same way Just ask yourself if you are willing to risk your friendship. See if you can get him to admit to ever liking you in the past or future.
You don't wear my ear off, don't worry. It's called jealousy! I've seen it so many times with some of the guys. My brother went through something similar too. I don't know if this is far fetched, but did you ever think maybe Parker likes you... as more then a friend?
I've actually like Connor, for, uh, a while. And that girl that he's with? UGH I CAN'T STAND HER. And you know me, I don't get mad at people easily like that. But Maddie her? I could rip her head off. I really don't want to risk our friendship, because it'd kill me more then being rejected. But it feels so wrong to keep it away. I normally tell him everything and I can't stand keeping a secret. I have to tell him. Sigh.
PARKER LIKING ME??? WOAH. That's all I can say. Woah. Never thought of that. Uh....woah. I...just...when you say that, my girl mind starts whirring. It's screaming at me to just like Parker back, because I know I do (since when did I like him more than a friend??? Gr. This is why I'm a tom boy.) And that it would be easier and wouldn't be pure drama. Like, if I told Connor, that'd be just drama and cat fights. But, if I had feelings for Parker, if he even does like me more than a friend (which, again, I can't see), then my life would be...bliss?
Well does Connor know that you like him? Is he aware that you aren't a fan of the girl? Best friends always know best, so he should at least hear you out on your opinion. You should tell him, but don't expect him to drop the girl right away... You'll have to go about it really slow. Men need a lot of time to adjust, it won't work if you spring it on them.
So, if you had to choose right now Connor or Parker...Who would you choose? Ask yourself that. In my opinion I would see where things go with Parker. He seems more available at the moment and like you pointed out, not full of drama.
I think I have a dilemma of my own, Charlie. I was talking with a guy friend the other day and the subject of what guys look for in a girl came up. Apparently, guys like when girls dress nice? I don't know, but why do I all of the sudden feel like... I need to change my appearance?